Are you going through a break up?
Feeling heartbroken because your partner has left you?
Here are some steps you can take to get your ex back and to start feeling more hopeful about the future.
Six get your ex back tips.
These activities require minimal effort and all you really need is commitment and dedication.
1. Accept if you made a mistake or are in the wrong.
Holding onto false pride and not admitting you are wrong will keep your partner angry and resentful. This is a big block to reconciliation and getting your ex back. Once you apologise and admit your mistakes there is a chance to clear the air and move on. But just because you say you are sorry does not automatically mean your partner will want to get back together. This can just be the first step in the process.
2. Perform some soul searching.
Understanding your own needs and requirements from the relationship will help you be clearer on what is important or not. If you are very clear about what you don’t want in a relationship then it’s easier to tell your partner in a non emotional way. Once you understand the reasons why you broke up, you can then focus on solutions to prevent it happening again.
3. Put your relationship first.
Sometimes, lovers separate because one of them lacks the time and effort in ensuring the smooth sailing of the relationship. If you want to bring back the romance, emphasize to your partner that this time around, you are putting all your focus on making the relationship work. Let your ex partner know that you are serious about changing what didn’t work in the relationship before. Be sincere and genuine and your partner will respond to your energy.
4. Provide space
Giving your ex room is essential in showing how committed you are to getting your lover back. If your partner breaks up with you, you have to give him or her time to think over it. Do not force them to make a hurried or irrational decision. Your partner will appreciate that you are providing space and time for them to decide what is best. If you really want to maintain some communication, just leave a short message or text. This lets your partner know you are thinking of them but don’t expect anything from them in return.
5. Never flirt
One act you need to avoid when you want to get back together is flirting. Never, ever flirt with someone else because by the time your lover finds out about it, you’re giving them no choice but to end it all for good.
6. Finally, this is really all about you.
All you can do is change your own vibration so you become a more attractive person. You can’t do anything about how your partner feels but you can make yourself more appealing to them. And in the end, if you don’t get your ex back, you will be ready to attract a more fulfilling and soul connected relationship.