Can the Law of Attraction Help Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

get your boyfriend backCan the Law of Attraction help you to get your ex boyfriend back in your life?

Absolutely! Yes it can, but there are some crucial points you must know first.

How the Law of Attraction Works

The Law of Attraction is not some magical hocus pocus where you can turn your boyfriend into a handsome prince and live happily ever after. It’s about you creating the life you want and not trying to make your boyfriend behave in a way that you think will make you happy.

It’s about understanding how your thoughts (which are vibrations) have the power to attract similar thoughts. How you think and feel sets up your own particular vibration and this vibration attracts people into your life who have similar thoughts.

Very simply – maintain a happy, positive outlook on life and you will match up with other happy, positive people.

Of course there is a lot more to using the Law of Attraction than this.    

Before you begin, there are a few things you need to do to make sure that you can move forward with getting your ex boyfriend back so that you not only show him what he’s missing but also ensure that your relationship starts afresh.

Reasons to get him back

Before you do what is necessary to get your ex boyfriend back in the picture, you need to be sure that this is definitely what you want. A lot of time and effort are invested into relationships and if you have a lot of attraction, love and emotional investment still there, then it will be easier to win him back.

Your history together will also play a huge part in getting him back, and reminding him of the good times you have spent together can be a big part of this. It may also be the case that you split up over something really trivial, and if this is the case make sure that this is acknowledged and prove you have moved on – this shows maturity and an understanding of the situation.

How to get your ex boyfriend back fast

First of all, being needy is not the answer – it looks desperate, sends the wrong vibrations,  and will inevitably put your ex boyfriend off wanting to get back together with you. Focus on all the positive aspects of your relationship and show him how happy you are for the wonderful times you have had together. Don’t dwell on the areas of conflict or the parts of the relationship that didn’t work. Rehashing and going over past disagreements will only mess up your vibration and attract more conflict into your life.

Learn to be happy with yourself and the decisions you make.

A happy, confident aura is very attractive to be around and you want your ex boyfriend to see you like this.

Once you have mastered the Law of Attraction and regained your self confidence and more importantly your self belief, you can begin to think about arranging a meeting with him. Meet in a mutual place such as a coffee shop or even a park if you feel that a coffee shop may be too public. Be honest about your feelings and listen to what he has to say. But stay positive and upbeat.

Dealing with your relationship in a mature way will give him the chance to truly understand your feelings and see you in a new light. This positive feeling will encourage him to want to get to know you all over again.

Finally, just allow the Law of Attraction to get your ex boyfriend back in contact.

I know it’s tempting in this situation to try and ‘make’ your ex boyfriend want you again. But just remember that all you can control is your own vibration.

If you want your ex boyfriend back in touch, then become the person he was originally attracted to when you first met. If he was attracted to your happy, loving vibration once, he can certainly be attracted to you again.

Discover the four magic steps that guarantee you will get back together.

18 thoughts on “Can the Law of Attraction Help Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

  1. I believe that there is certainly power using the law of attraction if used correctly as you stated. And, I agree that you must look within yourself first to find good and valid reasons to peruse him. All in all it takes plenty of hard work to make it hopefully work.

    1. I’m not a great believer in hard work Shaun. I think it’s better to focus on what makes you feel happy and then allow your vibration to shift and the Law of Attraction to bring you what you want.
      Love, light and joy… Anandi

  2. Nice post. I learn something totally new and challenging on blogs I stumble upon everyday. It will always be interesting to read through articles from other authors and practice something from their sites.

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  4. Would the LOA work if your ex boyfriend broke up with you because he was no longer in love with you, wasn’t attracted to you anymore, and doesn’t want a relationship with you? If he is completely closed off to the idea of being with me again, could the LOA still work because we won’t be on the same vibrations?

    1. Thanks for your question Jane. What was your vibration like when your boyfriend first fell in love with you? Happy, loving, kind, generous? Whatever it was, if you want your boyfriend to match you, this is the vibration you want to have again. You can change YOUR thoughts, feelings, beliefs and vibration… you can’t do anything about him.
      My Free book will help you with LOA Tips. Get it here
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      Wishing you much happiness,
      Anandi <3

  5. Thank you for the well written article Anandi, it brought me much comfort. I have been using LOA for over a year to attract the life I want. My ex and I broke up last year and using the LOA I was able to manifest her back within a few months. We broke up again in January 2014, and I am now in a low vibrational place and have been stuck for quite some time. I’m doing all I can think of to get unstuck, but it’s not working. I want to be with my best vibrational match, which I think is her, but she has completely shut down, said the love has changed and that I deserve better because she is an idiot. I can’t change her thinking and I am stuck right there with her. Help! Again thank you for the article, it helps so many of us.

    1. There’s lots of helpful advice to get back together on this blog… keep reading until you feel your mood shifting just a little bit. It doesn’t take much to turn around how you are feeling!
      Have you read my book “Bring Back the Love of Your Life” yet? It’s guaranteed to give you a plan and hope for the future. Best wishes with it all!

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